{"id":3121,"date":"2023-02-15T22:02:46","date_gmt":"2023-02-15T22:02:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/?p=3121"},"modified":"2023-02-15T22:02:46","modified_gmt":"2023-02-15T22:02:46","slug":"first-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/?p=3121","title":{"rendered":"First Love:"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First Love:<br>Why do you still stand up for me?<br>Why do you listen to me?<br>Why are you always there for me?<br>I have never done anything for you. <br>That&#8217;s not true. You gave me my first kiss.<br>You were my first love. That will always be special to me.<br>You will always have that special place in my heart.<br>No matter what the future holds. <br>Even if our lives take different paths.<br>No one can ever replace our first love.<br>First love, in so many ways, our first love, sets the path for all of our future relationships.<br>The way we are treated by our first love becomes a basis for which we set out our standards for future loves and relationships.<br>If our first love relationship is one of romance, special moments, and a deep commitment, we look for the same type of treatment in our future relationships, in our future loves.<br>If on the other hand, our first love relationship is lacking romance and commitment, we do not have a special feeling on which she based future relationships.<br>If we are made to feel special during our first love relationship.<br>If we are made to feel we are important and have that special someone we can trust to be honest with, no matter what.<br>We need those same things in any future relationship, even marriage.<br>Whether we realize it or not, not only do we need these things, but we look for the same in our relationships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When people talk about first loves, they usually mention their first sexual experience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is not what you mean by first love. Sadly, if first love means a sexual relationship, not a deeply emotional relationship, it sets the path for all future relationships, even carries over into marriage.<br>When our first love has a deep emotional basis, our future loves and relationships are the same.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If we are blessed to have a reunion of our first love, then we are complete.<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First Love:Why do you still stand up for me?Why do you listen to me?Why are you always there for me?I have never done anything for you. That&#8217;s not true. You gave me my first kiss.You were my first love. That &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/?p=3121\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":982,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/982"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3121"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3121\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3126,"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3121\/revisions\/3126"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/how-to-write-a-memoir.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}